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female
age
26-29,
*zzygurl
writes: Hey everyoneMe and my boyfriend decided to split up because we barely see each other and my guardian won't let me go to his house, but he can come over, and sometime we go to the movies.I don't have a Job and he don't have a job neither so it's kinda hard to go out and do fun stuff, we used to text every day and I'm so in love with him, I've been hurting since the split, I don't have much friends, he was the only person that made me happy and felt special, now I feel lonely and I feel like nobody loves me... I've been suffering from depression since my dad passed away and now that I don't have him It got worse.I really love him and I he said he loves me too.... We decide to get back together when things get better, when I get my car or when he get his car.... I know things are not gonna get better soon....I don't know how to cope with the fact that I don't have anybody anymore, I feel like nobody loves me, and my guardian wouldn't understand when I tell her what I'm going through...I just want to know what to do and how to cope with it. And please no negative comment, I don't need that right now please.....thanks P.s: we dated for almost 6 months
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (12 January 2013):
You need something that's constant in your life, not people who come and go and reinforce the idea that you can't get what you want. I suggest volunteering. It is a fact that there are always needy people. You get confidence interacting with different kinds of people. You realize you are better off than some without basic necessities of life. You can also try volunteering at a pet shelter. People without job experience start off with volunteering. Your goal should be to establish a career that gets you independent fast.
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