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writes:Dear Cupid, I have a question I like to keep in contact with male friends of mine from time to time. We laugh and talk on the phone sometimes but when I started talking from my heart and saying things that I have been saying for years finally touch base with these guys.Now no one wants to conversate with me.I was young back then but now I am all grown up now it seems like they are bagging up.They don't answer the phones and voice mails are coming on as soon as my number shows up.Could it be they feel threatened by the fact that they have no control of my life anymore.Help! Reply to this Question
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (29 April 2013):
 I think they find they no longer have anything in common with you and don't want to talk. They have moved on with their lives, and there is probably no room for old girlfriends who believe they are now in control.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2013): Fact of the matter is I have moved on I live in a different state now the relationship with these guys were very controlling.It has always been a mind game with them.Now that my foot is down the conversation stops.I won't say I was innocent during our time together but it's over now.But I figured since we are adults now we should be able to talk regardless of being in relationships in the pass.
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (28 April 2013):
Maybe it is more that these guys have moved on with their lives, have different interests to when you and they were friends, I don't understand what you mean by saying they have no control over you any more.
It is also possible if you have started talking from your heart that this is stuff they don't want to hear, so they dont answer the phone. Your conversations might be pushing them away.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (28 April 2013):
You're going to have to explain things a little more or the only answers you'll get will be to stop worrying about it.
I get the sense that you're to blame for something that you're unaware of, which has caused them to not want to have anything to do with you.
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