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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My best friend hurt me really badly about a year ago it started suddenly for no obvious reason. She seemed to be constantly going out of her way to hurt me and said some terrible things behind my back. Including playing mind games and making nasty comments about my weight looks and life in general and also passing info about me to my ex and constantly telling me what he was up to as though she was trying to make me jealous. I wasnt but I didnt want to know at the same time and felt hurt that she wanted to make me feel like this. For this reason i backed off and left her to get on with her life. Now since then she accused me of disserting her but says she wants us to be close again, im a new mum and lonely but im not sure i can deal with her mind games. Should i tell her why I backed off, send her packing or let it go and alow her back into my life?
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reader, kristing  +, writes (29 April 2013):
 Honestly, if I had a friend who treated me that way, I wouldn't continue to stay friends. She has obviously hurt you very badly and is accusing you of deserting her? She doesn't deserve your friendship because she couldn't be one to you. If you were to agree to being friends with her , she would think that she could do that to you again. Especially you being a new mother, you don't need that in your life . If she wants to truly be your friend and make up for it , she needs to win back your trust.
Hope this helps
Best of luck
Kristin
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