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*8trpn
writes:I need advice if this guy has feelings for me.We have known each other for 3 years on friendly terms. I have a feeling our mutual relationship is more than friends. He is going through a divorce and he tells me he no longer loves his ex, only as the mother of his kids. I think he may ask me out or is afraid to...not sure. But, I do have feelings for him and care about him a lot, which is noticable because I ask about his health, his kids and the common hobbies we share. He tells me events he is going to and stuff.He comes to my desk almost everyday to talk, and rarely misses a day. There are times when he will avoid me, but will pass by just to see me. If I am stressed, he comes by and makes me laugh or cracks jokes. He teases me sometimes just to see me laugh. If we have not talked for awhile and I stop by to see him, his face lights up and I can see the sparkle in his eyes. He looks at my face and chest and back at my eyes and will not say anything...even if lint was on my hair??!! I notice this sometimes when I smile and laugh. I thought it was weird that he told me recently that he loses sense of time when I mention something specific he asked me, he rubs his chin and rubs his legs. So odd...is he nervous around me? When he talks to me, he looks directly into my eyes and won't look away. If I get destracted from him, he still looks into my eyes. If I mention another girl at work is pretty or an actress and ask for his opinion, he gets mad and says it is improper for him to comment. (Most guys would comment). Instead, he tells me I look nice today and everyday. One time I told him he looks good and that he needed another belt to look more professional. So, the next day he went shopping and he came up to me (really close) and said "I hope I am not revealing too much, but I took your advice and got a leather belt." I thought it was cute and creepy at the same time. He does soften his voice to me and I have to ask him to speak louder. He stands close to me when I show him something, but we never touch.He reveals a lot about himself and his family (we call them mom and dad). He is always honest. But, I notice he does not laugh much around me. He always has a straight face and looks directly into my eyes. So, I do not know what to make of it. I even knew his favorite childhood cartoon without any hints, and he was quiet and said I was correct. He just had this blank look, but he could not remwmber mine and I told him a week ago. So, I teased him that he is not paying attention. He replied I am trying...I must be going crazy.I really do like him. I noticed he gave me an eyebrow flash the other day...Is he playing me for a fool, flirting or is it serious?Please help! I truly like him!!!
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (3 May 2013):
Thanks so much for your followup Im happy that my reply was helpful but remember time and thread with care.Hope all works out for you .Kind Wishes Nora B.
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reader, NORA B +, writes (3 May 2013):
Thanks so much for your followup Im happy that my reply was helpful but remember time and thread with care.Hope all works out for you .Kind Wishes Nora B.
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reader, I8trpn +, writes (3 May 2013):
I8trpn is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your advice. It is helpful. I am starting to feel what you mentioned. Thank you so much!
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reader, NORA B +, writes (29 April 2013):
Right now this man is going through a divorce-so on that level i think it might be best if you were happy to remain friends.As he will need time space understanding and yes friends.Otherwise there is no point in getting someone on the rebound.So thread carefully or you might get hurt.Kind Wishes Nora B.
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