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writes:I will bullet point this to get the main information you need across;We dated for a year Split up last nov 12 - agreed to remain friends. Stayed in contact but only saw each other for the first time since the split last weekend. It was really nice, no awkwardness, great catch up. Felt at ease. Text him after saying it was good to see youHe replied saying 'that was nice, good to see you looking well'How do I interpret that response? It wasn't good to see me too? Or I looked hot and he only just realised this? What does a guy mean when he says those words. Any help appreciated. Thank you.
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (29 April 2013):
 Hi
He's just being polite, bumping into the Ex is way up there in the worst things to happen scenario's. You got through it and he responded in a non offensive way to your text.
Just carry on with life as you were,at least there's no bitterness to carry as baggage.
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reader, R1 +, writes (28 April 2013):
 His response sounds polite to me. Seeing ex's is always awkward but at least you have gotten through it.
And no he isn't saying you look hot or he wants to get back together. But that's ok as I'm sure you have moved on...
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reader, CMMP +, writes (28 April 2013):
I guess you've never heard of small talk. There is no hidden meaning in this phrase, it's like trying to find hidden meaning in "how are you?" "fine". Does he mean fine like he misses me and he's trying to hide it? Or like he has a new girlfriend and he's so happy he wants to get married? Or fine like he's really, really good looking?
It's just something that people say in those situations.
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