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51-59,
*arried to my self
writes:I asked my husband why me never says anything nice to me I asked him is there anything you find attractive about me. He said I can't think of anything but he said to me in front if exwife that I'm jealous of her cause she's pretty an your big fat cow an he would leave for hours with her an lie. About what where they were or just not talk to me at all it seems like he's attracted to everyone but me all he's always thinks I'm cheating u don't understand please help
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reader, TeardropsOnMyGuitar  +, writes (29 April 2013):
I find it odd that his ex is ok with having an affair with him while you are with him unless you cheated with him while he was with her.
Regardless, it sounds like he doesn't want to initiate the divorce so he is acting like an ass until you do it for him.
The problem with that approach, as demonstrated by you, is that some people have a very very high tolerence of crap before they toss the jerk out.
Don't wait for him to do it - you're punishing yourself. Dump him.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (29 April 2013):
You could spend the rest of your life with a guy who makes you unhappy and leaves you feeling ugly or you could find someone who appreciates you and makes you happy.
Yes, being alone is scary, but so is being with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2013): he's accusing you of cheating because he's cheating. Look it up, it's a common thing for cheaters to do.
he called you fat.
he called you fat in front of his exwife.
he called you fat in front of his exwife and left for hours with her.
HOW MUCH DOES HE HAVE TO DO?
he's dropping hints right and left, they all say "IM A JERK, DIVORCE ME!!!"
I say take the hints.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (29 April 2013):
 Doesn't sound like much of a "husband" to me....
Dump him and get a real husband.
Good luck...
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reader, fishdish +, writes (29 April 2013):
 WHAT?!Who cares WHY he is like this, in my book he doesn't deserve analysis, he is an unrepentantly BAD person. If he thinks you're such a cow, then he won't put up a fight when you find a new man and divorce his sorry ass. I think this person is beyond repair, I'm sorry.
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