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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I like this guy and I recently found out that his girlfriend is moving in with him. He talks about her to everyone else...except me. I asked him what did he do over his vacation and he told me he did "absolutely nothing". Someone else asked him that very same question and he told them that he was cleaning his apartment because he girlfriend was moving in. He also told me that he didn't have any plans for the weekend when in fact his girlfriend was moving in. That's huge when a significant other moves in and she's moving from many states away. I would be very happy if I was in his situation because originally she wasn't interested in moving down here, and they broke up. I'm sure he knows that I like him so why doesn't he just tell me what the deal is?What's going on here?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2013): Hi, I'm anon asking this question.
I wanted to add that this guy has flirted with me in the past and he tries to get my attention sometimes. My whole thing is if I'm not interested in someone I would definitely tell them about my boyfriend/girlfriend! I wouldn't want them getting the wrong idea.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2013): Simple because he knows you have feelings for him and he doesn't want to shove his relationship in your face and make you feel bad/jealous etc.
That's all really, not nice to see a persons face and mood change when you start talking about your girlfriend. Nice to not shove in the face of a person who has feelings for you.
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