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writes:I'm really confused about a guy's feelings for me. The other day we went to dinner I thought it was nice but I don't know how he feels about it at the end we kind of gave each other an awkward side hug goodbye. (I didn't want to make him uncomfortable with a real one.The start of the date was awkward too while I was waiting for him and as he arrived a guy came up to us and hit on me with him right there and the guy asked if we were together and we just looked at each other with an awkward pause.) He asked me to his schools semi formal but I had to decline because I had to work so I invited him to mine and he accepted but when we text I feel like I'm boring him but I don't want to not text him and have him think I'm not interested I don't know what to do or think. Please help :(Also it was our first time hanging out with one another and I'm not sure if I should bother asking to hang out again. I start most if not all of our text conversations and I was the one to ask him to hangout.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell we started texting non stop, we still text every so often but I've run out of things to say so I usually don't waste time texting him if I truly have nothing to say. I do try to give him some space and I don't know maybe it's just because the whole idea of texting can seem misleading the messages seem bored it might just be me he always replies to me at least though. And I still want to go to the formal with him but if something comes up with him I'm stuck with the extra ticket and no one to go with. :( As far as talking on the phone we haven't done it except the time he called to find out where I was to meet up for dinner other than that it's usually texting. And my last bit since we haven't know eachother for that long I feel like its too early to admit liking him I didn't want to overrush things.
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reader, hrangel28 +, writes (16 April 2013):
I went back and read your information again. Because I feel that I missed some information as well. I have some questions for you. What makes you feel that he is bored when you text on the phone? Maybe he's the person that doesn't like text on the phone. Maybe instead of texting each other you should try talking on the phone. As I was re-reading your information. It does seem like he does interested in you because if he wasn't than he would have not showed up the date and also he wouldnt have accepted your invitation to the formal. But if you really want to know how he feels about you. I'll suggest to just ask him about his feelings towards you. Also you be best if u do this face to face in person, not over the phone. Also you stated how to tell him that you don't want him to go with you to the formal anymore
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoh no I think the story got a bit jumbled lol @hrangel28 the guy I asked to the formal was the one I went to dinner with. The guy who hit on me was just some random guy on the street that neither one of us knew xD. I was just pointing out what started making the situation possibly uncomfortable and awkward up until the end of the date. But after rereading what I posted I can see how it was confusing.
ok so the guy I went to dinner with was the one who asked me to his semi formal but I couldn't go since I had to work so I invited him to mine. And he said yes but his actions are what's confusing me. Hopefully this clears it up.
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reader, hrangel28 +, writes (15 April 2013):
Am pretty sure you misunderstood? What I said. It's ok, just to let you know, am writing these post on my phone. So, maybe, sometimes I might misspell words. I'll try to be more careful, sorry about that.
Am assuming that your response is about. The person that you invited to your formal, the other guy. Am pretty sure that you asked him to go just to see if the the person you like would say or his reaction. Well, am sure if that was the reason, but I feel that honesty would be the way to
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHmm it's sad he really didn't seem like that type of a guy...and the "one thing" is clearly out of the question so considering what you said @hrangel28 what would be a good thing to say to him do I just take my invitation back I wanted to go with him but I have to buy a ticket and if he declines last minute I'll be in a tough spot being out of the money
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reader, hrangel28 +, writes (15 April 2013):
It is pretty clear. That this person does not have any Love in his heart for you. To be honest I don't really think he cares about you at all. I will explain to you why.Clearly, as you stated, that you were the one who initiated everything. The other part and this is something that can really guide you to how a person feelings are about you, and this was his reaction to the other guy hitting on you. In front of him, and also, you're invention to you're semi-formal. If he was there with any intention of trying to make anything out of this , he would reacted in a different way. Pretty much, he's just after one thing "if you know what I mean"I would recommend that you let him be aware of how you feel, and that you wont make any more efforts on your part. If he wants you, then. Let's. See how much.
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