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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Guys an girls PLEASE interpret this :( Not sure what to think?Known him for about three years and been emailing on and off and such.Then out of of no where Its one of those awkward ones and yet funny at the same time type of questions. He's been wondering for quite sometime so he just wanted to throw it out there.Already knew what he was going to say, but put "Sure, shoot".Then he asks if I have a crush on him,How long?Since six months after I moved in the neighborhood.I say that it has been years since I have had a crush. The last crush I had was in 5th grade (I'm 17 O.O). I say I can't answer him fairly and I just don't want to lose what we haveThen he proceeds to tell me that he loves having me as a friend and was just curious cause that is what it seemed like to me. Then says to clarify that I don't have a thing for him.I then told him it is too soon to tell. (cause the older I get, the harder it is for me to like someone that way. Its just the way it is sadly.) Then I said maybe if he was a friend a long time ago and still on a good note. Maybe.He then says Friends! :D I always enjoy talking to you and I appreciate you asking me how I was doing while I was away. Thanks! I'm relieved that you don't have a crush on me. It just shows that your not one of those girls that sees someone good looking and gets infatuated without even knowing the person. THANK GOODNESS! and then says alrighty now that that’s all cleared up he will talk to me when he talks to me. ttfnwhy would he even ask in the first place? It's not like I flirt with him or anything like that. The girl that has known him for 10+ years said it could be because he needs his ego higher or he's hoping you like him too or he plans to make fun. However him and her haven't been talking in like a year. I talked to him recently and he says that he treats all girls the same, which he said is quite bad because he admitted to have a flirtatious personality when it comes to girls which he's trying to work on. So if it seems like he's flirting he's not its just how I present myself which is jacked up cause he doesn't want it to seem like he's flirting.PLEASE READ: I did not know where we stood at all, three days later after this was all on chatting/emailing, I saw him and he was smiling really big and such so I know we are good now.Need your input. Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2013): Thanks for your response. Like I said after the conversation online, he kept looking and smiling as ever before :) So it's good. I just hope I didn't hurt his feelings cause a girl did do it before me sadly. I asked his friend +10 years and she said he is not the type of person that will tell the girl he likes her. So I have no idea if he likes me more than a friend. All he said was "I love having you as a friend" so...hmmm :-/
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