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writes:My baby always tells me that he cares for me " just so much" but has never said he loves me. He's a Capricorn and has said in the past that he a man who will show love when in love opposed to JUS saying it right out. He's also said that he's going to tell me which implies he really does. I can feel it in the way he looks/stares at me all the time when I'm not looking then I catch him and he continues to stare among other ways. I guess I really want to know if I'm over analyzing just because I just want to hear him say it straight out? Reply to this Question
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reader, peanut_gallery +, writes (12 April 2013):
I would not confuse astrology with this.
If you are treated in a loving fashion and feel loved, then you know he loves you. If not, I am not certain the words will make a difference. Think of "I love you" as a "cherry on top".
It seems like you really love each other.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (12 April 2013):
 If the sexes (players' roles) were reversed.... you and I would have duplicate stories.......
I put up with this for about 6 years.... What I DID hear was, "I like you, a LOT...." After a while, I learned that THAT (above quote) really seemed to mean, "I don't love you.... really...".... and decided I'd had enough and instituted that we break up and go on our separate ways...
I think I was right.... (and am doing just fine, these days... and spending time with a lovely woman who has told me (and DEMONSTRATED IT!!!) that she loves me)... I think it makes a world of difference.....
Good luck....
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reader, Caring Aunty A  +, writes (12 April 2013):
 Yeah that’s a Capricorn for ya, duty before expressing words of emotion/sentiment. Similar to a Virgo another Earth sign that’s even more stoical and harder to crack emotionally... Sure enough Signs maybe of interest to you. So besides the looks and stares, how goes his actions; they speak louder than words?
I agree that you maybe over analysing this bit; as love is a verb; and done by doing – action… Here they are more comfortable in that sphere of work and duty, than saying those three magic words.
I’d count your blessings if that is the case. As it could have been; I love you Honey Bunny and him on the couch 24/7 dutifully staring at the TV!? :)
Cheers – CAA
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 April 2013):
 his sign has no bearing on it... don't let him off that easily.
my husband RARELY tells me he loves me. some men (and women) just don't say it. the key is my hubby told me even before we fell in love... "I do not and will not and cannot say "i love you" and he told me he had one woman leave him because he would not say he loved her. I think he now realizes he didn't love her.
The first time he said it to me was in front of a friend and I did something and he said 'i love you too' and my friend pointed out "she didn't say it first" but he just could not back down...
He's said it two other times when drunk...
and once he said it at our wedding as part of our vows so I would have it on a recording....
that's it.
but I know this man loves me.... purely and more than any other man who has ever said "I love you to me" I do NOT
Your guy telling you he's going to say it is bullshit. either he does or he does not and either he is one that says it or does not...
The looks he gives you are not love... that is not how you tell he loves you.
IF you question it, then maybe he does not.... I sense that most folks know when they are loved.
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