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*ackalus
writes:Hey guys, so my gf of a month has just passed her driving test and now she's seems very off with me. I mean we can spend the day together and not have a real kiss at all, we have gone all the way so it's just really weird. She tries to get rid of me very early in the evening and im just really messed up, I think she is bored of me and I don't know what to do please help me!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Jackalus +, writes (13 April 2013):
Jackalus is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for advice no worries now as all is clear, she has broken up with me
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reader, R1 +, writes (13 April 2013):
 If she is losing interest then there isn't much you can do. You can't force someone to like you. I'm sure you want to be with someone who likes you as much as you like them. And at your age there are plenty more fish in the sea!
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reader, Jackalus +, writes (13 April 2013):
Jackalus is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust updating you guys she dumped me today
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (13 April 2013):
 Hmm...very interesting. You have only used sexuality in gauging whether or not she's bored with you.
Maybe, she's not wanting to base her relationship with you solely upon sex. A month is pretty soon to have sex, and it's possible she's either regretting it or she wants to do other things besides sex with you.
I say back off some and give her space. Let her miss you. Pushing for sex all the time can put every woman off, especially this soon. Just ease off some and let the relationship breathe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2013): Honestly, I'd say move on.
You're young, it's a new relationship and it's already not working. The first few months should be amazing, this sounds like she couldn't care less. I apologise for being brutal but I think you should end this relationship before your feelings get too deep and find someone who'll appreciate you and what you have to give.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2013): No, she isn't bored with you. She got her license and just found a little independence. She wants to get out and start driving. She passed the drivers test for a reason. She wants to be able to drive herself and her friends around. That's growing up. She has a huge responsibility in her hands.
Be happy for her and let her know it. She will appreciate that coming from you. You're a very nice guy for caring for her so much. Don't think she doesn't care. She wants to feel a little freedom. If you have your license, then you should understand how she feels. You couldn't wait to get behind the wheel. Remember?
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reader, femmefemale  +, writes (13 April 2013):
Speak to her. She might want to break up with you but be finding it hard to tell you or it could be something else. Just speak to her
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