A
male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:So my ex girlfriend finally forgave me after 8 months and we are starting all over again. I broke her heart and she was furious with me until recently when I did something really sweet for her while explaining why I did what I did and how much she means to me. Now I think she is falling for me again and we have been talking a lot (mostly me contacting her first) but just recently she started avoiding me. Maybe I'm going too fast and she is scared of getting hurt again? She is sort of insecure and always had fears of losing me so I kind of want to stay in touch constantly to make her understand I would never do that and that I'm always there for her, but I don't want to rush things either. Any tips? Should I just take it slow and keep low contact? Thanks.
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reader, raiders +, writes (12 April 2013):
 Take things slow, it is always hard to take an ex back especially if they hurt us, so if she has forgiven you and is talking to you again just give her time and pace yourself. She might want to make sure she doesn't make the same mistake twice so she just being careful, be patient.
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