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male
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anonymous
writes: This girl I like we would always see each other on nights out, kiss a lot and just have banter, it was really nice. But then recently I started becoming lazy in texting her and I could tell things were dying out with us when we saw each other, i felt like i was loosing interest i suppose...She still made the effort I could tell and I knew she really liked me and wanted more. Anyways, it been nearly a week since I saw her so I texted her and she didn't text back. That was about 5 days ago, usually she replies, she always does! But not this time, I don't know why, maybe she lost interest or picked up that i was loosing interest, could be any reason. And i know she has used her phone from her facebook!Why do you think she would have just stopped texting me? It's strange that it makes me wonder if I did something wrong and it now makes me want her attention more, I want to know why she is ignoring me, it just makes me feel like i've lost her now and wondering...Can someone please explain how an earth that works, all she did was not text back!? Has any guy ever experienced this with a girl...
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reader, babyzbird +, writes (27 October 2012):
Hello,
It's actually quite simple why she didn't text back. You lost interest and stopped texting her. She TRIED but you didn't bother. What else is she suppose to do if you wouldn't give her the time of day? Never get over you?? Jeez...
The reason why you are upset because you were use to her giving you her attention and you realized now that you lost her.
If you don't want this to happen again I suggest the next time you don't ignore the next girl and expect her to text you whenever you want her to. I wouldn't contact this one as it really wouldn't be fair to her. You probably hurt her when you ignored her. Leave her alone and move on.
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