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writes: I am single, not been seeing anyone lately and I have a friend (a boy) who i spend lots of time with, he is younger than me about 2 years, I am 25 and he is 23 and I knew since i met him and he wanted to f*** me and I didn't think of him in any way but he is a cute boy that knows I am out of his league and this is how we became friends, we have been best friends like for a whole year.I know that I turn him on but I keep him where I want him and some times push his buttons and tease him.Lately I have been fantasizing about him doing bad bad things to me, I want him to do me right.So, as he is my friend I should be able to tell him that I am horny and sexually frustrated and ask for his help to calm me down?what do you think will happen if I do so?Would i risk our friendship?
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reader, lost cartographer  +, writes (29 October 2012):
If he is getting teased for ages without any benefit you will probably lose your friendship anyway.
Do what ever you want. It wouldn't surprise me if that is your usual move anyway. Good luck being out of everyone's league too. Must be exhausting.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2012): Obviously you more than like him but you don't want to admit. yes you will do him a world of good. You can teach him a thing or two about the bird and beas which seems he still doesn't know. Otherwise he would have taken the initiative and chased you himself. Anyway you are both adults. So do whatever you like, it is not such a grave thing. Most of us poor guys start our sex life by an older lady who shows us a thing or two that is very, very nice.
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reader, Candid Cally +, writes (27 October 2012):
No, sweetie. Because you are 'out of his league' you will definitely compromise your friendship if you tell him you are horny and ask for his assistance calming you down.
Friends of the opposite sex are not to be used to calm the urges that you feel in your loins. As someone in her 20s, you should already know this. If you truly value your friendship with this boy, you should keep your urges to yourself and mayr stop teasing and turning him on so much. That really isn't fair to him because he probably thinks you are interested in a relationship with him, when you are really only interested in sex.
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reader, babyzbird  +, writes (27 October 2012):
 Hello,
Your friendship would definitely change! How do you feel about a friends with benefits with this boy? As this is actually what will happened if you sleep with him.
Do you want this boy to be your boyfriend?
It's OK and normal to feel like this however if you want to keep this boy as a friend then I suggest you control your urges around him. Once you sleep with him you can NEVER go back to the way things were.
Where he is making it so obvious he wants to have sex with you I highly doubt he will do you right anyway. It could easily end up with him using you and you feeling horrible about it.
If I were you I wouldn't risk it...
Good Luck!
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