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writes:I am 36 F. I know what I think is wrong. but it is difficult for me to stand this. I think it is due to I am Pisces and he is Scorpio by Sun sign.I am interested in my younger sister's husband. We flirts and he calls me to talk personally. I feel he is interested too. How do I express my likeness to him. I do not want to destroy my sister's life, but I wish if he is interested too.I know I am going to get slaps in reply.
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (28 October 2012):
Firstly, his sexual past or lack there of is not your business. He is not your husband, why do even speak to him in this way? Flirting? It is so disrespectful.
Secondly, your weird past and present confusion isn't an excuse to do selfish things. I can understand you are confused about your character, but if you want to fix that then you should do that on your own by making the right choices in your life and finding confidence in yourself again. It seems like you want to intentionally hurt others especially yourself, which is why you asked your question in such a guilty way. I think you may need professional help.
I can't really give any advice that will destroy people so at the end of the day it is your choice to do what you want.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (27 October 2012):
 It's easy to understand the attraction between you and your brother-in-law, considering the signs that you've revealed.... What's MISSING is the THIRD important bit of data.... and that is YOUR SISTER'S SIGN....
Once we have that, we can give you a complete and conclusive (and IRREFUTABLE!) response...
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2012): this was my query. i have bit of my history to be added here. first of all thanks for responding. I was not a virgin(physically) when I married. My elder cousin's son had bit of a depression and while once talking to him, I got to know that he is confused about many thing about sex. he was anxious and really that was the root cause.I understood that his trouble were around how to 'insert'.I advised him about how those tings happens etc. I did not keep a limit to show that I am his aunt. it went as free talk.later he asked me he really want to insert and feel it. he did not tell it directly. but he was yelling in different manner. I thought there will not be an issue and allowed him in me. my virginity is lost that way. for me it was not of any emotional or romantic. later during several occasions i saw that he started recovering.any how the story does not have much significance here other than myself telling that it was not my intention.may be I feel, things like this have an effect in my attitude to think it is not bad to have sex outside marriage. I am confused of my character.I do not want to hurt a family, especially, but how will I leave my woman unattended.I am ready to be my sisters maid servant.
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (27 October 2012):
 I agree with YOUWISH 100%
Just because something feels right DOES NOT mean we should always do it...that is why most people have an internal moral compass that steers them away from bad/unhealthy/criminal/immoral decisions.
As a person that has an absolutely wonderful sister, I would never do anything to harm her or hurt her in any way, the very thought would be inconceivable...it would be like hurting myself.
You arrogantly suggest that you will get slaps here...this is not a forum for confessions and neither is it a place to get encouragement to do despicable things.
I do believe you will go ahead with this 'thing' you plan and you will reap what you sow...
Your a selfish woman.
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reader, tamperingtampaguy +, writes (27 October 2012):
The fact you base your life on horoscopes tells me all I need to know. You are not bounded in reality but in unproven external influences. You seem very selfish that does not have a logical bone in your body. My suggestion would be to find yourself and think things through my logically. Lest you have a life based on fantasy and unhappiness that you created. Oh by the way, your sisters husband is just looking for a receptacle.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (27 October 2012):
 OH MY GOD he's a SCORPIO!!!!! Totally you must betray your sister, the one related to you by blood, and sleep with him, cheating on her and devastating her!
Not only that, but when you cheat with a SCORPIO, you don't have to worry about playing with fire! You'll never get pregnant, or found out, and your sister will laugh and hug you because she knew that you couldn't resist!
**sigh**
Seriously.
There are millions of unmarried Scorpios out there who aren't married to your sister. It's sickening that he's flirting with you and talking alone with you. Stop flirting and taking his calls, because you're already betraying your sister with every word to him you say behind her back that you wouldn't want her to hear.
Feelings are fickle. Starve them, and they'll GO AWAY! People who say that ignoring feelings haven't learned the discipline of mind over emotions. Self-control and mental fortitude, plus the overriding feeling that you'd rather have your eyes gouged out with ice picks rather than do one thing to ever hurt your sister. Get a hold of yourself and stop talking to the guy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2012): For a start forget about your sun signs, you can not use that as an excuse. If you love your sister you will tell her husband to leave you alone and focus on his marriage. It is not right to go after your sisters husband, you will really hurt her and probably the rest of the family. Please put a stop to it before things go wrong. Best wishes x
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reader, Fklove00 +, writes (27 October 2012):
I'm a Pisces also yay! But I think you should let the feeling fade away because it will and plus that's your sister she will never Trust you again. This happened with my older sister to my younger sister and I'm the middle one of course but she is talking to my little sisters ex bf and it's a secret but I will never trust her. My little sister loved him and we all know the day she finds out she'll be heartbroken.
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