A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Okay so, i've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for awhile. And we haven't gone all the way yet, (soon though) and i've always gotten him to cum (sorry for the straight up term) from bj's. but when he fingers me it"s pretty stimulating yet he's never gotten me to orgasm.I don't really know what feels good and what doesn't i guess. I'm not sure what to do. I'm pretty relaxed and i know which of his "moves" i guess, i like the best yet he could finger me for a while and it'd feel like the level right under the "almost there!" part. Help?! anyone?! is there something wrong with me??
View related questions:
orgasm Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, JustHelpinAgain +, writes (23 November 2012):
No there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. And whats more you have already identified the thing you have to do. You are not certain how to give yourself an orgasm so how in the world do you think your boyfriend will do it for you? so when you are alone and relaxed find out how you work, it may tske a while, then you can show him. He probably doesnt even know if you are having an orgasm or not so remember to talk a bit.
|