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writes:Hey agony aunts and uncles; I hope that you're doing fine. Anyway, it has been really awkward recently as long story short, my friends told my crush that I like him. It's terrible; apparently he knew all along. (Kind of) However, he promised my friends that he would continue to treat me normally and not overreact. :( What is that supposed to mean? Does this mean that I kind of for rejected from the very start? Also, a party is upcoming at his house next week! Would it be too weird if I still went as though nothing is wrong? What should I do now? Thank you in advanced. :)
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (23 November 2012):
 It means that your interested is not requited , but he is going to be a gentleman and act as if had not been told anything, and not say or do anything that may embarass you.
You can go to the party as though nothing is wrong, because nothing is wrong.That this guy is not into you, does not mean that you have to stop seeing your friends and having a social life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2012): He means he's not going to make a big scene about it so everyone knows, and you get embarrassed over it. Its quite a decent thing to do really considering most guys egos would go through the roof and they'd brag to anyone that would listen to them.
I suppose there's no harm going to the party if you were already invite before this came out. Just try to get on normally with him, don't overreact and make him or yourself feel awkward in from of everyone. Just go with the flow at a sensible pace and see what develops over the coming weeks between you two.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (22 November 2012):
 It means he's flattered, but does not want to date you.
You can go to the party IF you are going because you truly 100% just are going to hang out with your friends, but do not go if you are hoping he will change his mind or you will get somewhere with him.
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