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writes:I really like this boy that i work with he's such a sweetheart, so cute and we have a lot in common, we always talk i would defiantly consider us friends but i want us to be more then friends. Whenever i see him i get butterflies and i think about him legit all day I never felt this way about anybody not even old boyfriends, I kind of get the feeling he's into me too but he never asked to hangout or anything like that. I feel like maybe he's a little scared to talk to me just like i am but i really don't know what to do should i make a move? And if so how?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2012): Simply ask him out. Maybe to a game or sth,see how it goes from there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2012): Darling, careful with your actions. Once you make your move, you can never reverse it. I've never done asking a guy to go out with me my whole life, I still believe that guys should be the one who should initiate asking you out.
If he likes you, he will ask you out. or you may ask him out if you have the guts and your 100% sure he will say yes, go ahead and try but make sure your ready for worst and positive outcome.
Also, just because a guy is nice to you, doesn't mean he likes you more than friends. Clues he might like you more than friends: does he ask you if your dating someone? his fishing out information about you.
Another Clue: Does he ask you to wait for him?
Additional Clue: If he notice everything about you like your hair, your clothes or your shoes. It only means his memorizing every detail about you.
More clues: does he volunteer for a group get together thing? Does he makes sure you know it? and invites you. most shy guys do this.
So, think about it. Good luck..
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reader, Miz7 +, writes (22 November 2012):
Ask if he wants to hang out at a mall or something casual and during that time get on that topic to find out his feelings (asking to go to a mall sounds like wanting to chill not an actual date cause I'm not really for girls asking the guy predicament) :)
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