Am I sick for having feelings about my mother's cousin, who's engaged to be married?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I think I'm falling in love with my mother's first cousin, meaning my uncle. He's only 5 years older than me and the last time we spent any time together was when we were really little, until now (I am 23 and he's 28). I havent seen him in years and a few days ago I went to stay with his family and we had such an awesome time together, we stayed up all night talking and listening to music. Nothing happened but I found myself thinking about him more than I should. He's engaged and planning to get married next year, well maybe. He keeps saying that if he finds someone better, then he'll call it off. I am now back at home and miss him soo much. I feel like crying. Am I sick for having feelings for him?

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