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*uza2k3
writes:I am almost 26 years, and she's 25We have been in this relationship for more than 3 years now. But there's this behaviour that she has which keep discouraging me from continuing the relationship, which is respect. She hardly respects me again, I don't earn my respect anymore from her, she say abusive words to me and why doesn't she even want to care how I feel?I have been correcting her for more than 2 years on this issue. I have never once abused her throughout the whole 3 years of being together. Recently I was discussing something with her and she just busted to an argument and said I talk like an idiot!!!.....I am tired of this and very confused!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, BondGirl72  +, writes (12 June 2012):
 I know. Many of us have been there and we understand the difficulty and pain. It is difficult turning away from the the one you love or care about because you are always hoping he/she will change. It rarely happens though. You don't want to live your life with this disrespect...trust me.
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reader, guza2k3 +, writes (11 June 2012):
guza2k3 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks a lot guys for your advice...am. Still trying to let go of her, but I don't know how to go about it!!! I can't continue to get abused by her, how I wish she could change!!!
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (11 June 2012):
What should you do? You should tell her that you deserve better than someone who thinks you're an idiot and you should move on. People like this do not change because they do not think they are doing anything wrong. Please do yourself a favor and look for someone who does not verbally abuse you.
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (10 June 2012):
 Hi,
So you've done your best to rectify the situation, and you've been dealing with this for over 2 years now.
She insults you, disrespects you and is just generally unkind. Why would you want to stay in a relationship like that.
My advice to you is to end this relationship with her. No one deserves to be treated like that. And she obviously has anger issues. You don't need to be around that.
I say make a run for the door.
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