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*orschelee
writes:my bf is always lying and taking off for hours or days without saying he is leaving and doesnt call while hes gone. then lies about where he was who he was with, etc. then i find out from other people he was kicking it with other broads. he always hides things from me and is constantly lying to me. do you think he is cheating on me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2012): "do you think he is cheating on me?"Not necessarily, can't rule out the possibility he's attempting to establish pattern of contradictory or discredited statements, deception, withholding information and prolonged periods of unaccounted whereabouts in order to cover up ongoing criminal activity or other unsavory behavior, create alibi for recent criminal activity, or maybe he just wants you to think he's cheating on you to make you jealous and show him how much you really love him. In that case, I'd say best way to get even is by playing hard to get.Seriously, how many anvils have to fall on your head? If you're waiting to catch him with another woman in your bed so you'll have the proof you need to confront him and demand an explanation, then I'd guess he'll claim she's just a good friend and they were just resting because they were tired after working hard all day making elaborate preparations for your surprise engagement party which you just spoiled by snooping. Don't be intimidated if he threatens to break up with you for invading his privacy, it's just a bluff, he'll forgive you and take you back. Men can only disrepect women who don't respect themselves enough.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2012): Whether he is or isn't cheating, do you really want to be in a relationship with an immature and inconsiderate boyfriend? When you're in a relationship you don't need to know each others whereabouts 24/7, but going away unannounced for days on end is a joke. He is not taking your relationship seriously, if he was he would act how someone who loves you should and would inform you of where he was off to and how long for.
I wouldn't like to say if he's cheating or not but it doesn't look good. Leave him and wait for someone who will cherish you and care for you to come along x
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