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writes:Hey everyone I am 23 years old,and I would say for the past 4 years I'v been bicuruious and I would really want to know how it is to be with a girl..I don't know if I can go all the way and have sex but I think just first base to see what I feel about this..and to know if I am bisexual..A good friend of mine who I'v know for 6 years,she's attractive and she once told she made out with girls,one of her best friend and they were both drunk..I'm meeting up with this girl in 2 weeks time and I think she's pretty and I thought may be my first should be with her,do you think I should make a move??She gives me those looks sometimes when we are alone in the room but has never really made the move she's straight by the way she hooks up with girls but has never really dated one..she only hooks up with girls when she is drunk..so anyways do u think I should make a move?or would it ruin our friendship??
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (29 July 2012):
 It would not be my first option for an encounter, but of course it is up to you.
You could easily lose a friend or make it awkward but it could be ok to, all depends on her and you really.
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reader, Hugh.J +, writes (29 July 2012):
 You will never know unless you try. I suggest that you have a few drinks and go for it; if later she regrets it, you can always blame it on the drink and you won't lose a friend.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (28 July 2012):
 It could potentially ruin your friendship. How good friends are you? If she's not your very best friend then I think your friendship can survive it. Friendships do survive this sort of thing if NO ONE falls in love. If all you want to do is try things out, and she's interested in testing things sexually with you, then sure. Make a move. But if you think she, or you, might want something romantic as well, such as a relationship.. then I suggest you seek elsewhere.
This will be no different from a FWB situation. It could be a great idea to test things out with a distant friend, as you are more comfortable with each other. But it could also be best to be with a woman who you do not have a friendship with, because the friendship might get in the way and make it awkward.
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reader, Abella  +, writes (28 July 2012):
 She does not sound like the best option for your first lesbian encounter.
You have known her for 6 years and still she has not made a move on you.
She is not ready to be fully honest in that she chooses to only hook up she she is drunk. That is hardly respectful and nor would it be as nice as if she was fully functioning.
I think it could ruin your friendship.
There are many other girls who would not need to be drunk to talk to you, get to know you, and want to take things to the next level in a tender loving way.
It is a major decision to go to the next level with another girl. Try to make it special. With someone who really finds you attrractive and wants to treat you very well and honor your without being drunk while she gets to know you.
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