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writes:Dear cupidmy bf was flirting with a married girl from his office in his Facebook. it was disgusting and we had a nasty fight. He left and i called his mobile more times that i am supposed to. sent him couple of messages.What should i do now, i couldn't simply sit at home and wait for his call, i don't want to call him again either. i really love him a lot, i am restless, i couldn't do anything and been starring at my phone for couple of hours. How do i deviate myself, i believe i am pretty messed up right now. please help me
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (29 July 2012):
Hi there. I think you have done all that you can for now.
It's probably wise to stop trying to call him and stop texting him as well.
I say this, because it's not having any affect.
Give him some space and let him come back to you, in his own good time.
And see what he has to say.
Keep yourself busy by going for walks, and reading or seeing your friends or pursuing some hobbies, if you have any that you enjoy.
The reason I say to keep yourself busy, is that the more you do with your time, the less time you sit around getting worried and upset and feeling confused with what's been happening.
It takes your mind off it.
And I probably don't really need to say this, but DO NOT visit his Facebook page, and then you won't see things you don't want to see.
So you won't be upsetting yourself any more than you are now.
Keeping yourself busy, provides a distraction from everything and that can be a really positive thing, at times.
Especially where there's a lot of stress in your life.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (28 July 2012):
 Go for a walk, stop calling him. You're not accomplishing anything. Just go for a walk and clear your head, calm down, sleep on it, and then decide whether to continue your relationship once you're calm and thinking clearly.
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