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Will I ever enjoy having sex?

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Question - (9 August 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 August 2012)
A female Kenya age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi everyone..i know this question has been asked like q million times but ladies i just want to know how was your first sexual encounter..so i was a virgin until yesterday and it really hurt ..i didn't enjoy at all. am just wondering if i will ever enjoy having sex ..thanks for your time

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A male reader, Patman1845 United States +, writes (9 August 2012):

Patman1845 agony auntI'm a guy but can answer your question just the same. The first time is supoosed to hurt. Trust me, the first time isn't supposed to.be good. Sex will only.get better and so will you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2012):

My first time did hurt, and even now sometimes at the beginning of sex it will hurt a little, but it does get better the more you have sex. Just take it slow until you start enjoying it and feel comfortable. I promise it does get better.

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A male reader, MikeEa1 Australia +, writes (9 August 2012):

MikeEa1 agony auntthe thing is that the boy you did it with knows about as much about sex as you do. one day he will grow up and learn how to please a woman. boys have to learn a lot more than girls.

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A male reader, AntPain United Kingdom +, writes (9 August 2012):

Yes you will, 90% of girls hurt on their first time. Most girls usually takes a few times of going slower before they start to enjoy it properly, I had an ex that took maybe a dozen times before she just enjoyed.

This will sound a little daft but, it'll hurt a little all the time depending on the size of the guys tool as well. From what I can tell though the girl usually doesn't complain about that after she has gotten used to it.

Just be patient and take it slow until you start to enjoy it, but trust me, you will enjoy it :)

Good luck and be safe!

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