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female
age
30-35,
*rimaliz
writes:I have just started working at a small company and I am the receptionist. Every guy there was flirting with me since I got there but then they are all young and really friendly. But someone has been putting a bit more attention to me than me, my boss. I am 20 years old and he 28. He is recently going through a divorce and I met him before I began to work for him, I even met his wife. The thing is that he looks like a player kind but when he looks at me is not that player kind of look and he holds that stare, i am the one to break it. I laugh when i get embarrased so all you hear is my laughter. And not only in front of everyone but from afar as well. I caught him staring at me while on the phone today. The chair at my desk has a special position and he told me if he saw it out of place i owed him a kiss. He has counted 5 and today when no one was around he grabbed my face and almost kissed me, though someone came last minute and he whispered "you still owe me 5 kisses" He even shouts this at timesnow he has added me on facebook and messenger and if he sees me online he would talk to me asking how i am doing and the last time we talked about pets. He is so good looking but i dont want to mix work life with relationships. what should i do? i feel like i am getting attracted to him more and more everyday, even beginning to dream about him
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reader, Chocolate-eyes86  +, writes (9 August 2012):
 Hey babe hope you're okay, well about your situation, you say hes going through a divorce at the moment. Divorce is a frustrating and heart breaking process. You also mentioned that you saw his wife, how long were they married for? I wonder what happened.... He is definately not wasting any time and is totally into you, flirting with you teasing you. My gut feeling tells me hes doing this to take his mind off the divorce stress. How do you know if hes serious or not? It could be that he is fragile at the moment and in this process he could end up hurting you too by playing with your feelings. You are still young and have a lot of potential ahead, you shouldnt be messed around and played with. I also fear that you might get hurt because you said he looks like a player type....how do you know how serious he really is?Talk to your colleagues and see if he messes around with other girls as wel from the past because u are new....thats just my thoughts babe, you know whats best...
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