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female
age
30-35,
*unkeyyMonkeyy
writes: Hello, I wrote on here about me and my boyfriend of nearly two years.Well we spilt up about two weeks ago now and I've got a question that not even he can answer and using know what to feel. Whilst we were together, I asked him if we could go out and go places and things and he never would he would be full f excuses then when we spilt up he's doing everything I asked him to do whilst we were together! Does that mean that he didn't want to be with me or splitting up was a wake up call or what? I haven't cried since we spilt up because I don't know how to feel about everything ? Does anyone else have any idea what I should feel? Thanks Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2012): It sounds like being single is what he prefers to be.
And if you don't know how you feel about the whole situation, could it be possible that you don't really care too much about the break up either, and just getting on with things and moving on as normal maybe easier than you think?
Just a thought :)
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (9 August 2012):
you should feel what you feel...
sad
angry
overwhelmed
excited for a new beginning
whatever you feel is normal
even if it's numb.
why in the world do you even keep track of him now that you are broken up?
he is an ex for a reason.... more than likely you will have many ex boyfriends in your time... you can't expect to remain friendly with all of them.
more than likely at your age, he just was not that into you...
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