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anonymous
writes:Hellow all,First of all, English is not my first language so please understand me !Now I am in usa just to learn english but I am going back to my country soon.I met a guy from my cousin's b-day party.I liked him at first sight and we had mingled I guess.But I am not sure He is serious about me!He knows I am going to go back to my country , and he is native-english speaker but I am not.I am poor at speaking english and vecabulary.Is there any chance he just use me as a booty call?He invited me to come to his bro's b day party so I am kind of special to him. Is that right?or that means nothing?Some of my friend told me maybe I am just a fling.But I don't know He only contact to me to go to a club or his place :(Deep down I have kind of feeling he does not like me :( But I think I like him .Am I stupid? how can I be reasonable?And is that true that dating with foreinger who barely speaks english considered loser?Flankly..Thanks !
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2012): It sounds like he may be looking for a quick fling if not he would have invited you to a proper date and go for lunch/dinner together. I am sure you are a beautiful lady and you should let this guy go and wait for a gentleman who will do things right ! Good luck!xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2012): I am a foreing in usa also. I am learning english too. There is nothing wrong to accept this guy invitation and meet him.
Go to a public place. Dont go to his place. You can meet him at his cousin b-party and see how it goes.
Is very helpful for us (foreigns) to socialize with english speakers.
Just be careful and DO NOT let anybody treat you as a fool just because your communication skills are limited.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (9 August 2012):
 1. IN this country, men try to have a booty call available to them, if they are able...
1A. IF your "friend" takes advantage of you, to have you be his booty call... he is NOT a friend, after all.....
2. YOU deserve to have a respectful and honest relationship with ANYONE who you encounter in the USofA.... This man does NOT "sound" as if he is being honest and upright with you...
3. It is OK for YOU to understand that this man is NOT a nice man..... and you may say to him, "I do not wish to spend time with you.... ASSHOLE..." .... since it sounds as if that is what he is being...
I hope you get other, better, views of the USofA... it's really a great place...
Via con Dios...
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