A
female
age
30-35,
*ammyj
writes:I've been living with four boys for two months and one of them has a real problem with me. For the first week he was really nice and interested in talking to me all the time, and very friendly. Then something changed and he started to act cold as if I am not in the room, cutting me out of conversations and trying to talk over me. He won't make eye contact and continues to talk about things that he knows I won't know anything about. Then other times he is continually trying to wind me up and teases me about being a girl, being small, being weak, and tries to get me mad or upset. He sometimes picks me up or pokes me or kicks me, or slaps my ass when we play basketball with our other housemates. Then sometimes when we are on our own, I try to be nice to him, and then he changes to acting nice, asks me if I want some of his food and just talks normally. I don't understand why he goes through so many different ways of acting towards me, but my other housemate suggested that he might like me. But then I don't get why sometimes he won't even look at me, and he comment that other girls are hot to my face.Can someone please help me figure this out?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 August 2012):
 His friends could be right, sometimes when a guy likes a girl he does everything in his power to get her attention even if it is all the wrong things. He also might not want anything to happen with you because you both live together therefore he is being nasty to you to ensure that it won't. However it could also be that he just does not know how to be around a woman. Maybe he has never lived with one in the past. If he is really mean to you then I suggest you just ask him what his problem is and take it from there.
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