A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey, i have a relationship question. i have a boyfriend that i just love,we have been together for over that 1 year 9 months and now we are doing a long distance relationship. and here i met with this guy, who obviously like me but he did not say it, he tried too and after trying too i told him i have a boyfriend , he started acting like i am the who follows him. i enjoy going out with him, he is an amazing guy and i do admit that i like him a bit but he is treating me really coldly, what should i do?
View related questions:
long distance Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2012): How much do you like this new guy???
A
female
reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (9 August 2012):
 what do you expect... he was interested in you as a date and you told him you have a boyfriend and he's a wise man and is not going to pursue you.
You say you have been LDR for nearly 2 years.. have you ever MET your LDR boyfriend?
...............................
A
female
reader, Honeypie +, writes (9 August 2012):
 The guy thought he had a chance to date you/sleep with you who knows and then you pull the "I have a BF" carpet from under him.
He's hurt and he feels stupid for putting the moves on you without knowing you had a BF.
You hurt his EGO, basically.
Let him cool his heels. Either he gets over it and want to be your friend or he doesn't.
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2012): You have a boyfriend, so you just accept that this friend of yours respects your in a relationship and has backed off because he liked you. If you start trying to continue trying to be his friend when you know he likes you and you have a boyfriend he is not going to respect you at all. Some people can not be friends with someone they like when that person has a partner, and it sounds like this friend is one of those people, just leave him alone., be polite and respectful, but if he wants to act coldly let him.
...............................
|
