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writes:Me and my now ex boyfriend stuart broke up a month ago. We were together for almost 6 months I really was in love with him and still am. We said that we would be friends but I feel he is making it really difficult for me to be friends with him. I babysit for his baby brother and when stuart is there he talks about him sleeping and getting with other girls which upsets me and makes me feel like crap and asks me how single life is. The other day me and my friends wanted a pizza from dominoes (he works there) and him and his staff just stood there laughing at us which made me and my friends feel unconfortable so we didn't order. He also added my friend on facebook who he told me he hated her and now is texting her. Whenever I go round to babysit he seduces me and I go ahead with it because I still love him. I have deleted his number and as a friend from facebook but now I have to babysit round his again soon. I don't even want to talk to him cos he makes me feel shit but some days I feel like I want him back... What do I do?
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reader, BondGirl72  +, writes (10 August 2012):
 Definitely find another baby-sitting job. He is being mean and you don't need to put yourself through this torture. Make sure you stop communicating with him if you ever do, and block him from any devices or sites. I would also get my dinner from someplace other than Dominoes, or send a friend in to get your pizza. With friends like that,who needs enemies? Surround yourself with people who care and leave those who don't.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (9 August 2012):
 he's clearly unable to act in a friend capacity. I agree with Bim; stop babysitting and going where you're going to see him. ask your friends to either also cut him out of their lives or not mention him again so you can get over him. he's completely trying to get to you and you're letting him. moving on is the best revenge.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (9 August 2012):
 Stuart is an arsehat. Just remind yourself of that each time you feel like wanting him back. As for babysitting, you don't HAVE to babysit his brother, tell his parents you are unavailable.
You need to give yourself several good talkings to, next time he tries to seduce you remind yourself he is an arsehat, when the arsehat asks you how it is being single, tell him its 100% on being involved with an arsehat.
Take back your power, you are the one who gave him the power to make you feel like shit, so it is up to you to take it back again.
I know you can do it!
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