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writes:I went out with this girl now 16 months ago, we only went out for two months and I can honestly say she was my first love, over the past year and a bit we've almost got back together several times and everytime she calls it off saying how it wouldn't work or she wants to ive this other guy a fair chance or whatever is happening at the time. Everytime she did it felt like she was ripping my heart out over and over as I desperately want/wanted to make us work.In January it happened again but even worse when were on the verge of getting back together, I was so close having this girl back and it all blew up in my face due to someone else. Something out of our control. I decided I couldn't keep waiting for her so I distanced myself to try and get over her, I've been out with girls and really fell for them, got with girls done the whole single thing and yet....I still find myself wanting her above everyone else.I can honestly say I'd still give up a lot to be with her. At the same time though I want to just stop feeling for her and just remember what we had be thankful for it.How the hell do I let go of these feelings for her? Surely I've had enough time and hurt to realise she's not right for me?Do I just keep the mindset of "I will feel the way I did about her with someone else?" and keep faith?Thanks to anyone who can help with their own experiences or whatever
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2012): Time will heal.
But it'll take lot of time though.
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