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writes:I'm having friend trouble again, I keep getting jealous of one of my closest friends. Well she keeps saying how men always stare at her and I understand that a lot of men stare at her, she's gorgeous. But I know I'm ugly and I get zero attention, I've told her this but she doesn't stop telling me how they say things to her and how they help her and how they look at her. We're going somewhere together and she said people there will look at anyone. I asked her why she said "anyone" and she said she didn't know what else to say and that there's nothing wrong with saying anyone. But there is, she had to put everything in context to fit me. I know I might be reading too much into it. I just need urgent help. Thank you for understanding. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi thank you for your answers, it made me think a lot. I know some of the men may be perverted, but she looks quite mature for her age. I mean she's very tall and just beauitful. But yes I shouldn't read into it as much as I am thank you Karlos5021 and So_Very_Confused. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2012): Have you told her it annoys you the way she goes on about how she thinks everyone loves her? Maybe she isn't aware of how it makes you feel.
If you want my honest opinion, if its "Men" that advance or show interest towards her then they're weird ones because she's only a teenage girl. So I would be thankful they don't show that kind of interest in you.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (9 August 2012):
 you are reading too much into it.
you are quite young and have not yet figured out that people of quality are those that love themselves.
It's hard to do at any age... but very hard at your age.
just because men stare at her does not make her better than you... in fact if she's 13-15 and it's MEN staring it makes them perverts...
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