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writes:I knew this guy for a month, I won't say we are close. The first time i met him we were both at a party and we were both intoxicated so we figured "lets have sex" so we did. The next day it was awkward so i thought it was a one night stand, however he added me on facebook the next day telling me he had a great night with me, he asked me to hang out with him the next week, like watch a movie and go to his house. So we did, by the end of the night he was holding my hands and cuddling me and again we had sex.A day passed and I haven't received a text or call from him. I think i like him but i know for a fact he does not like me and only used me, i still wanna be friends though, even if its never going to be a relationship. So i guess what i am trying to ask is should i forget about our sex.. talk to him and just be mere friends, or ignore him completely and move on cause he totally used me? I dont what to do, help me.
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reader, BondGirl72  +, writes (9 August 2012):
 I agree with SVConfused. First of all, how do you know he doesn't like you? And if you know this for fact, why did you sleep with him a second time? Then, why would you want to be friends with someone who doesn't like you and just used you for sex?
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reader, RachaelG +, writes (9 August 2012):
Id say move on. Someone who uses you wont be a good boyfriend or friend. If all he wanted was was sex from you, he will more then likely keep trying even if you guys are just friends. How do you know he doesnt like you?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (9 August 2012):
 if you know for a fact that he does not like you and he used you why do you want to be friends with him???
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2012): Why would you want to be friends with somebody who used you? Lets be honest here, you don't want his friendship. I think you know deep down that you're hoping he'll suddenly change his mind and tell you he has feelings for you.
It sounds like you need to cut all contact with him because it will be impossible for you to just be his friend. Also, it doesn't sound like this guy is capable of being much of a friend anyway.
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