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writes:Hi. This isn't really about a relationship problem. Mainly a life problem. Anyways I'm currently in college for my AA and after that I'm going into the RN course! I know this is an amazing field to go into, but I sometimes don't feel that my heart is into it. Ever since I was little I've always wanted to be an Elementary Teacher. I'm going to school for the RN because it was my back up plan. As much as I want to be a teacher I know it won't help support me in the future to where I don't need an significant other to help with the bills. I honestly don't know what to do...every memory I have of me playing 'teacher' was my most happiest memories. I can really imagine myself as a teacher doing what I want to do, but I have a hard time imagining myself as an RN. I know I can do the work and graduate with my RN, but I'm scared that I'm making a mistake. I want to help people, but I really want to help children. IF I become an RN I want to be a Pediatric Nurse. Basically all I'm asking is if I'm making the right decision...Should I go for the teaching even though I won't be able to be stable on my own? Or go for the RN job that I still have serious doubts about. Please give me advice! :) Thank you! Reply to this Question
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (11 August 2012):
 You are on the path of adulthood, making major decisions that will ultimately affect the rest of your life. It was great that you took on board your parents thoughts and opinions, gave them consideration, but have chosen what you feel is the right thing for you; well done! You should feel proud. You know what you are in for, and are prepared to do the extra work to accomplish your dream. I'm sure your parents will be proud of you, when they realise how committed you are. Best wishes for a wonderful life.xx
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reader, MeShell +, writes (10 August 2012):
MeShell is verified as being by the original poster of the question Would like to say thanks for your answers. I've truly thought of this dilemma constantly for the past few days and with your words I've decided to do what my heart has always wanted to do. As much as my parents will be upset that I'm going to choose teaching, that's what I'm going to choose. I may have to have a side job after school hours to support myself, but I feel it's the right choice. Wish me luck on trying to get my parents to understand, for they are against it only because of the salary.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (9 August 2012):
 Go for the career that will have you doing something that you LOVE TO DO....
All the money in the world can't overcome dissatisfaction in (with) one's toils.....
Good luck....
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reader, Aunty Susie +, writes (9 August 2012):
Nursing is very hard, and it is a MUST that you have a passion and a desire to be there. Yes, it is very rewarding, I know. But it is not the profession to go into for the money. If you can't picture yourself as a nurse, then it's not for you. And nursing sick children cannot be compared to teaching healthy ones. Good luck with you decision, and all the best for the future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2012): You are going to help others regardless, BUT: definitely have a back up plan. RN degree is great for jobs & earnings. If you don't find anyone to help you out (affluent spouse) in the future you can stand on your own feet. Consider doing exactly what you want a 'luxury'. Can you afford it? Perhaps not... If someone loving can help you out financially, PLEASE, help those children in need out at school! They need you. It's a cruel world out there...
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