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writes:Hello everyone.I suppose this is a pretty common question for this site. "How do you get over the person who rejected you?"I recently got rejected by this girl in my school. Let me tell you "our" story.So. We met at school through mutual friends,started saying "Hi" whenever we stumbled upon each other and took the same buss ride home (not alone,though,but with all of our friends).Then one day, Friday 2nd September, I "accidentally" (not on purpose,promise :P ) missed my first class.So I was sitting alone in the cafeteria,when she and her friend came and sat in front of me. We started small talking and had fun for a while until lunch time.Me and 4-5 others of my friends (all girls..) were sitting on a round table,while this other girl was sitting with her friends in another table. (Just to tell you all,this girl is also friends with my friends,and vice versa for me). So then this friends of mine on my table came was teasing that girl for liking me (and I know how embarrassing it is,even if they're just joking),so I stood up,went to her table and hugged her. She became red as a tomato,no kidding.That same day we were suddenly holding hands,that same day she added me on Facebook,that same day we were up all night chatting and that one same day..I realized I had a huge crush on her.This later fell to pieces in just a month (we never became gf/bf. We just held hands). Another dude in my class started liking her and this girl didn't want to hurt neither one of us,so she said she "unfortunately" can only be friends with me. I was heartbroken and didn't speak with her for a week, avoided her when we were at school,etc. She wrote "Sorry for everything,I never really wanted it to end this way.. 3" on Facebook to me. I just ignored it at kept my distance for another week. Then I just realized I wouldn't be able to keep it up and that I missed her,so I went up to her in school out of nowhere and hugged her,whispered "Sorry",she whispered back "For what?" I replied with "For everything". 1 week later and we're extremely good friends,but I still had this feeling that one day we will become a couple. She told me that the dude that also likes her suddenly stopped talking to her,cause she told him that a boy that was basically her "boyfriend" around May, wrote to her out of nowhere after half a year. She said she "thinks" she still has feelings for him. What she didn't understand is that these news crushed my heart. I tried to tell her to "follow her heart" and get back together with that other dude if she wants to.Now it's 7th November and I have no clue what to do. Please help me, and just don't say "get over her",give me some advice,please :).Thank you all in advance and sorry if there are any typos,it's 3am and I can't fall asleep :P
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reader, arch16  +, writes (8 November 2011):
Well man I've been in that same situation an there is no getting over it trust and believe you just need to be asurtive and grow balls and ask her out but first just kinda pour your heart out not to much just tell her how you feel start from the beginning and work ip 2 current date an then say we should give it a shotI wish the best for you
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