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writes:I have had some of the most unbelievable things happen to me for about 15 years now. Car flipping over and submerging into lake, several close call car wreck with injuries,cervical cancer, emergency brain surgery, seizure disorder and crohn's disease diagnosis to name a few. My Mom thinks that maybe someone put a curse on me because it's been consistent bad luck and hardships, one after another for over 14years now.....not to mention, not one relationship has worked out since I had to leave my husband 14years ago, and some even stole from me and my family. There were 4 accidents where I could've been killed, and almost did die in one. My question is, am I cursed? Can people be cursed, or am I having to deal with some serious karma issues?! For real, I wonder how the heck I could've made all this stuff on my blueprint for this one lifetime! I never really have believed in curses, but i'm trying to make some sense out of why I'm having all this adversity.I have been staying as positive as possible through it all, but I would love to know if you can help me! Thank you so much! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2011): I can completely relate. I've been run over by a car that was going 45 miles an hour, fallen down a flight of stairs and almost broken my back, AND I've just recently been diagnosed with Crohn's Disease, too! I definitely understand the frustration you're going through. It gets very overwhelming when several serious events start to pile up. You are not cursed, and neither am I. Bad luck? Sure. But I am definitely a very tough cookie now, as are you. It is important to be so grateful for life when you're given not just a second chance, but a third or a forth. It helped me to take up hobbies that I had always dreamed of doing and had never tried - horse riding, tango dancing, you name it! Make yourself a "bucket list" and enjoy life to the full.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (9 November 2011):
 Cursed is one word to describe it. Blessed is another.
God or the universe (which ever you choose to believe) is trying to tell you that you're being looked after. Someone or something has your back. You've been through many frightening, life threatening experiences and have lived to tell the tale. And you can relate to and empathise with others who have experienced only a fraction of what you have.
Clearly you're one tough, and very fortunate cookie who has a lot of interesting stories to tell and opportunities to reach out to others.
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reader, The Realist +, writes (8 November 2011):
 I work with a lady who sounds just like you. She has been hit by a car, had cancer, was just electricuted and is still going strong. I don't think it is bad karma because you haven't done anything that I can tell to deserve it.
I think instead of worrying about bad luck you should try to look at the positive here. You are still alive and have alot to live for which should help you appreciate every day you have. The only way anyone can help you is by getting you to realize that life is precious and should be treasured. Don't live your life in fear just live it happy so that if anything does happen you know you have done yourself justice.
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