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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am someone who has literally no confidence at all.I have been told that I am a pretty girl, but when I meet someone I may be interested in, and they may be interested in me, I just cannot talk to them. Literally there are no words.I have had opportunities for relationships but I am always terrified that it will go wrong, and that there could be no possible reason why they would want me, because of all the other gorgeous women they know, that I push them away.I used to have a lot of confidence when I was younger, but I seem to have lost it all. Not just in relationships but in every other aspect of myself.I am worried I am destined to be alone forever, and was wondering if anyone had any advice for me. I think maybe it would help me to gain a little bit more confidence back.Thanks to anyone that replies.
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reader, Daniel the love doctor  +, writes (9 November 2011):
 Thank you for reaching out for help. You've taken the first step in building your confidence, and that's something to be happy about. :^)I'm so sorry that you're feeling so down on yourself. But what you have to realize is that you are someone who offers value to this world, someone who's worthy of love, and someone who deserves to be happy. I would recommend that you continue to seek help, read confidence builder books/articles, and read this article ( http://www.dearcupid.org/question/need-a-confidence-booster.html ) in it's entirety. If you take these necessary steps to improving your life, you'll be in a better position to start feeling better about yourself. Best wishes!
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