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writes:If i get turned on my 'lady-boys' 'she-males' or whatever you want to call them does it mean i am gay? or bi?
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reader, AvgGuy1  +, writes (8 November 2011):
 I would guess that you might be bi/gay but, as HoneyPie points out, you might not want to accept it at this point and that looking at hyper-feminine men makes it easier... or it could also be that you secretly desire to be 'taken' and that it's easier to see yourself being seduced by someone who initially appears as a woman but turns out to be a guy. If you are bi/gay and you become comfortable with your sexuality you might even still prefer more feminine guys than the more masculine type. I initially started out with bi-sexual porn as it allowed me to imagine being both in both roles until I was more comfortable with just all-male porn.
There's nothing wrong with any of this. What's more important is that you accept yourself for who/what you are and not try to bury it in shame (so to speak). If it turns out that you're in deed straight, then so be it... but if you're bi/gay that's fine too. As they say... you can't love anyone else... until you love yourself.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (8 November 2011):
 It's hard to say. I think there might be some (at least ) bi sexual curiosity.
She-males are looking female, trying to act female, yet maintain their penis which (to me at least) makes them men. Men with boobs. And there are rarely any "real" females involved.
I would venture a guess that it feels "safer" to look at She-males/She-male porn then straight gay porn, because they at least "pretend" they are sort of females. So it seem closer to the "norm".
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (8 November 2011):
 No, wanting to have sex with another man makes you bi/gay. People get turned on by lots fantasies that they wouldnt actually carry out on real life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2011): It might! you should try to find out x
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