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writes: I've never had a boyfriend or even been on a date with a guy. In fact I have never had a kiss or hug off a guy that wasn't meant as friendship. As I'm 17 I just thought I would wait until the right guy came along and that I wouldn't rush into anything. But recently I have started worrying that I will never get a guy for the simple reason I have not felt even slightly attracted to any guy I have ever met for a good couple of years, this doesn't mean never fancied the pants off a guy but I don't feel anything flirty, romantic or any sort of attraction to guys. I mean I don't feel that 'like' that usually kicks off relationships. I'm pretty sure I'm not a lesbian or bi as I don't feel this attraction to either sex. What can I do? I'm worried that I will never feel this feeling for any guy and won't ever date a guy I feel chemistry or even slight attraction to. Have I just not met the right person or is it possible that us can not be attracted to either sex?
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reader, littleBB  +, writes (7 May 2011):
You are only 17, most girl your age have relationships but are you really sure they feel in love with these guys? I would believe for most young people dating is just some sort of trend, and a way of experimenting relationships and sex. And besides, different people mature in that sense at a different time in life. I wasn't very interested in guys until I was over 20, and I suppose a lot of girls are that way, you shouldn't push yourself to be different than you are just to conform to a trend. I didn't find men interesting before that age, and again, I didn't fall in love before that time in my life. That feeling will come along the right moment, don't worry, you will be in love when you meet the right person and are mature for that type of feeling, and try to develop a friendship with guys before you think of a relationship.Who ever said people should be in love at such a young and immature age? Be patient with yourself, relax and enjoy life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2011): Thank you for putting a name to it. However i still feel frustrated as I want to just be normal and would like a relationship, the problem is I just don't feel any attraction at all.
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (7 May 2011):
 Ok I'm going to say you are asexual and will be forever.
Now tell me, are you relieved or angry?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2011): girl then what can i say i am 25 and i've never been on a date i've never kissed a guy ( i am virgin btw) it's just a matter of time sooner or later we will find our true love our soulmates then why the rush for?!! so please do not do any thing stupid just wait and you'll see and don't worry there is no "us" you're a normal girl ...good luck sweetie .....
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