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*anofathousendlies
writes:Ive got a problem. im in love with 2 girls but cant choose between the two. the first girl is a friend of mine she has blond hair and blue eyes. shes so beautiful she radiates golden light like the sun and shes very nice. altho she isnt a virgin and isnt really my type i still like her. the second girl is my cousin. please dont write some bull about incest i dont care if it is incest i still love her. I want to protect her and the only way to do that is to prove to her how much i love her. she only wants to be loved and i can give her love. even more than her mother and father ever could. she has black hair and blue eyes. she radiats moonlight and her gaze is dark yet beautiful. i love both of them more than my own life but i cant choose which one. who should i pick?
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reader, ArtsyGirl +, writes (12 June 2011):
First cousins it is illegal in almost all the states of the USA. I do not know which state you are from so I did not know, but I DO know it is illegal here(Nevada)
Secondly I said nothing about the bible or god or religion, so don't accuse me of something I wasn't saying. The bible has nothing to do with what we are talking about anyway.
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reader, Manofathousendlies +, writes (12 June 2011):
Manofathousendlies is verified as being by the original poster of the question Dear ArtsyGirl, sorry but you're wrong it's not illegal to be with a first cousin. heck its not even a sin because the bible doesn't list first cousins as incest, and if you say that god meant to include them is to say god made a mistake.
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reader, ArtsyGirl +, writes (7 May 2011):
You already said it about the first one, she's not really your type. But the other is your cousin and it is illegal to be with her. I would go with the Blond girl because if you try to love your cousin not only can you get in trouble, but you can get her in trouble. And if you truly love her as you say you will make sure that does NOT happen. Please if anything go for the blond girl because it IS incest and it IS illegal. I understand where you are coming from, I felt the same once about one of my cousins(though not as intensely and to the point of wanting a relationship. Just make sure she is happy and has a good life. But don't date/kiss/touch her inappropriately. Please be smartCheers!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2011): Believe me I've been through that cousin stuff. Well, i know how you feel, and i know for a fact that two cousins aren't incest (check the bible. If anything it encourages cousins getting married), the rate of birth defects only goes up 1-2%, and in the olden days, marrying your cousin was normal (either Einstein's parents were cousins or he married his cousin, i don't remember. I haven't been around this in a long time, don't judge). As for choosing, You have to ask yourself who do you love in a lustful way, who do you love like your best friend, and who could you stand to see with someone else. You have to be completely honest. And i don't know if you told either how you feel, but your cousin might be a little weirded out if you haven't said anything. Same goes for your friend, but that depends on how good friends you are.
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