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writes:I need a little advice. You see my boyfriends parents have confused me a little. I'm 19 and my boyfriend is going to be 20 at the end of the year, were moving out soon. We have been going out for almost 2 years and in all of that time i have never been able to stay at his house once. I live with my aunt and uncle and they have a young child in the house so he isnt allowed to stay here. He has two younger sisters, one is 13 and the other is 9. Now when my boyfriend asked why i cant stay over his dad said it was because of his sisters being there. But he has asked when they have both been staying out and he still said no, so i don't think its actually to do with that. Also recently his sister came out bisexual with her best friend. Her dad said that her bff is not allowed to stay over because he would not allow a boy to stay over. But then the other day she was allowed to stay over, in the same room. This upset me a little because shes 13 and gets to have her gf stay over in the same room as her which she shares with her 9 year old sister. yet i am not allowed to stay in my boyfriend's room whilst hes on the couch. i dont understand why they've done this. I mean they treat his sisters better than him in every respect and it kills me to see him hurt because of what they do but this time they've upset me too. why do you think they've done this?
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reader, Miamine +, writes (7 May 2011):
 At 13 they assume there will be no sex with the sister and her friend. They cannot assume the same for you as you are both older and know more about sex. Her 9 year old sister in the same room will act as a chaperon, you and your boyfriend would be in the same room alone.Solutions... your both adults and are able to work and live wherever you choose.. who pays the rent, gets to make the rules and they don't have to make them fair or make them suit you.Save some money and go away for a holiday break if you want some private time together or arrange to leave and set up your own home.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionto butterflies, i meant no offense at her being bisexual. i really like her, but she was in the SAME ROOM as her 9 year old sister and that is the sole reason i cant stay over. Though weve said we wont stay in the same room.
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reader, mizz.butterflies  +, writes (7 May 2011):
 its very simple. they dont want u guys having sex. they dont wanna be dealing with the possibility of a pregnancy.
yeah his sister might be bisexual,so what,she can't get pregnant by her bff.
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