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writes:i have problems with my boyfriend because he wants to have sex with me but im a virgin, and when we try ito, it hurt's a lot, so i dont know what to do. And i dont know what to say on the phone with him coz he says that his the only one that has conversations and i dont. so please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, Devilish Angel  +, writes (21 January 2008):
 Do you want to have sex with him? Are you ready? I didn't have sex until I was good and ready. If you want to, then do more foreplay and lube helps alot too.If you don't, then talk with him about it. If he loves you, he'll respect your decision and wait until you are ready. Never let a man pressure you into sex because it's your body and you decide what to do with it.If you use tampons, it makes sex alot easier the first time.
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reader, xapathyxrebornx  +, writes (21 January 2008):
 he wants to have sex with you, first make sure its also vice versa do you want sex with him?
secondly you could try foreplay (fingering and touching down below) to turn you on alot more and relax you. Also if he fingers you not long before sex he can strech you a tiny bit and also get you on the way to orgasm so when you do have sex you cum during that making it quite pleasurable.
If it still hurts you could try a lubricant or a muscle relaxant because thats the key, to be aroused and to be relaxed otherwise you make your wall too tight for entry.
message me if you want to talk x
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (21 January 2008):
 Tell him to play with your body first for 10 to 20 minutes until you are fully aroused before attempting penetration.
You may use KY jelly or Lube for lubrication if you feel dry .
Tell him , you love him and it was not his fault. Don't worry too much. He will be O K with you.
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