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*abygirl91
writes:my boyfriend is ready for sex! And i told him that im kinda scared becuz idk anything bout sex just yet! he told me that i wont hurt thant much! heres what he told me about it, it all depends on how big the guy's penis is compared to the depth of your vaginal canal, if the guy actually loves you and wants it to be romantic, he will make it most comforting for you, for the first time, sometimes it may be a ;little painful, but only at first, due to the ripping of the hyphen (it's like a little pop tab on a soda can, once opened, it can't be shut) but if the guy goes slow, it shouldn't be that bad, and always remember, you can tell the guy to stop if it gets too painful, and then after, you can slowly adjust with routines until you feel completely comfortable! what should i tell my boyfriend?
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reader, Lil Mack +, writes (26 April 2009):
 Honestly, I believe you are too young to be having sex. I recommend that you do not have sex yet. What are you in hurry for? Never let anybody pressure you to have sex regardless if it is your first time or not.
If your boyfriend loves you then he will understand that. Trust me, if he doesn't then he is only in it for sex and you don't want your first time to be something you regret your whole life. Somebody better will come along, you'll see.
It does in fact hurt and if you are scared just thinking about it then you are not ready and it will hurt. He may know all about it which leads me to believe that he seems to enjoy taking a girls virginity and then moving on to the next.
Please just do yourself a favor and wait. You will be happier the longer you wait. That is the one thing a woman has that a man will never experience nor understand.
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reader, babygirl91 +, writes (26 April 2009):
babygirl91 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I Had Sex And It Was Great. I Told Him After Awhile That Im Ready And We Did It!
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reader, babygirl91 +, writes (17 June 2008):
babygirl91 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank You Soo Much! He Understands That Im Not Ready For Sex Yet!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2008): Only have sex if you feel completely ready for it. Don't get pressurised into doing it, and don't feel that you have to.
If you don't want to then just tell your bf. He should understand and respect your choice. You could tell him that you are sorry and you don't want to let him down but you just don't feel ready for it...if thats how you feel! Talk to him. He'll inderstand.
Good luck x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2008): A lot of what your B/F says about the physical part of sex is true - but these are things you should already know from other sources. I think most women have pain the first time, no matter what the guy's size is. And it may not be just your hymen - other muscles and things inside you get stretched when you first have sex.
The problem is that sex is more than physical, and I don't think your mind or heart is ready for sex. If they were you wouldn't be concentrating so much on the physical part.
I think he wants it mostly for his physical pleasure.
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reader, Devilish Angel +, writes (22 January 2008):
 I agree with Leanna. He doesn't have a vagina. He's only reading about this once in a lifetime experience. Don't let the guy pressure you into sex. Its your body and you make your own decisions about what to do with it and who to share it with. If you're not ready, then tell him no. If he persists, dump him and find a man who really cares about you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2008): How the hell would he know what first time sex feels like for a woman? Does he have a vagina?
Dont let this guy pressure you, stick to your guns and don't back down if your not ready yet. Youll end up regretting it forever otherwise.
If he still persists, lose him.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (21 January 2008):
 Tell him you are not ready yet and ask him to be patient. If he loves you truly , he will wait for you.If he insist then it is not love but lust.If his love for you is genuine, he will not force you to do against your will.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2008): Tell him you aren't ready. And he should accept THAT too.
Tell him you'd apprectiate it if he didn't pressure him and that when your ready, he'll be the first to know.
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