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writes: I met a married man online after a month I felt very close to him thought we could meet and the next thing I know I was sleeping with him anyway he told me how he was depressed with wife and kids hated his job I felt sorry for him he told me it had been 2 years since he slept with wife....I am a single mom of three small kids am 12 years younger than him..anyway his wife found out I told her everyting even the intimate details she was crushed I thought he would of called and at least say something he never called back after 2months of sex and being a friend to him I never heard from him again,,,his wife told me that I was a midlife crisis whore and I would have to live with that I beleive he was in love with me I think he went back to his wife out of fear....I am really confused it has been a year and the last time I talked to him he called me names .......and that was it...help feeling really stupid and guilty...I thought he would of left his wife.....Last time I talked to her she said he was the best ever to her and they were working things out and he wanted to renew their vows...OMG
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2008): the thing is men always say the are not happen with their other half, but they only say it cause thats what they think we want to hear, the best thing 2 do is move on it always ends nasty otherwise
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reader, kit_e_kat  +, writes (21 January 2008):
 Listen what's done is done. You can't change what you've done and you shouldn't try to. You probably shared something really special with him but instead of going to his wife you should have told him to perhaps try counselling with his wife to sort things out or make it official that he did not want to see her again because he was not being fair to you either. Talking to his wife was the obvious mistake. you didn't have the right even if you two were in love, it should have been his job to tell his wife. The fact that he didn't tell her himself suggests that he still wanted to make things work between the two of them which is probably the reason he is retaking his vows. As for staying out of fear, fear of what will his wife beat him, will she take away the kids. He probably wouldn't try again if all was lost. As for you, you have got to move on, it is hurtful that he never explained this to you himself but you both know what you did together is wrong which is probably why he won't talk to you again. I don't think you are a whore or a nasty person, i believe you genuinly might have thought you were helping but he obviously had left parts of his relationship with his wife out when discussing it with you. I am really sorry but try and look for single men in the furture to avoid this type of thing and it is no good feeling guilty forever what's done is done and is best left alone.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (21 January 2008):
 Affairs are intense, fun and exhilarating but it's aftermath is very bitter. There is a price to pay.Be not be too harsh, forgive yourself and move on.
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