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Not trusted yet! How do I handle this?

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Question - (21 January 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 January 2008)
A female Papua New Guinea age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My boy friend says I am the love of his life but he doesn't trust me. And wants to know eveything I did when we were not together. What do I do?

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A male reader, dapone 1 United Kingdom +, writes (21 January 2008):

dapone 1 agony auntHi

My feelings are what ever had taken place between you, and any other person before the relationship you are having now, is none of anyone else's concern but your own, if he is not mature enough to take you and love you as you are, then that is his loss.

You need to sit down and talk to him and try and find out the problem he has, one of the most important parts of a relationship is the ability to talk and total trust, if he cannot accept you as you are today then maybe it is time to change your b/f.

What ever happens in your past is part of your private life and if you do not want to, you do not have to tell any one ever.

If he cannot love you for you and be happy at that then it is time for you to rethink your relationship, and find some one who loves you, and trust you without any hesitation.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (21 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntJust do the same to him. Asked him to tell you every minute when he was not with you.Tell him , you don't trust him too.

That is the rule of the game which he invented and have to be fair .

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