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I want him to love me more! So much so that he's be scared to leave me...

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Question - (21 January 2008) 8 Answers - (Newest, 25 November 2009)
A female Angola age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i want to make my boyfriend love me so much so that he gets scared to leave me, but i dont know how.

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A female reader, oliviaclairex United Kingdom +, writes (25 November 2009):

oliviaclairex agony auntYou can't make someone love you end of. If you're asking this I'm assuming you might not be happy at the minute with him? It seems you have insecurities and you're scared of him leaving you. If he leaves you, then you'll find someone better :)

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A female reader, O Connor Ireland +, writes (22 January 2008):

O Connor agony aunti think you should think about wat your asking here. the question you are posing is not healthy, you cant make someone love you, let alone like that. if he loves you he loves you, should that not be enough? it seems as if you are very insecure and this could lead to you actually pushing him away. all you can do is be yourself, support him emotionally and treat him with respect. if its meant to be his love will come to you, but you cant force it. if you wanna talk more feel free to email me

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A female reader, Devilish Angel United States +, writes (22 January 2008):

Devilish Angel agony auntUmm... you can't make a person love you so much that he is scared to leave you. You can deepen the bond by sharing memories and such but it has to be his decision to love you, the real you, not the 'angel'.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (22 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntBe like an angel to him.If you can , he will not leave you.

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A female reader, speedcat United States +, writes (22 January 2008):

This is not possible!just Be yourself, love comes naturally. If you try to push yourself on him,, youll most likely make him run! He should love you for you!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2008):

True love does not control people. It is a sharing process. Why one earth would you want him to be "scared".

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (22 January 2008):

rcn agony auntI think you have some fears generating here. You can't make anyone love you. You just be a good person for him, and if it's meant to be, his love will take care of its self. I wish there was an easier answer, but that's just not how it works.

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A male reader, Moviefan United States +, writes (21 January 2008):

Moviefan agony auntYou cant really make someone love you, you just have to find someone who loves you enought that they dont get up and leave you for the next girl that comes along. And bad boys are the ones who often times the ones who get up and leave so avoid them. Go for the ones who genuinly seem to care and have helped you before with what life has thrown with you. And dont alienate people who seem to care for someone u like that really couldnt care less about you.

Good Luck.

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