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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been seeing a guy for a short while now, by valentines day we will have been seeing eachother for just a bit over a month. We get on really well and I can really see myself falling in love with him in the not too distant future. We spend our time just cuddling, talking to eachother, the odd kiss now and then, and are generally very affectionate towards eachother. He's gorgeous and everytime I see him or he texts me, I just get butterflies. It's all happened very fast, I'll admit that, but we are both very comfy with it. This sounds so sappy, but we just "click". My question is because we haven't really been dating, just sort of spending a lot of time together, and nothing sexual has really happened other than very close cuddles and a few smooches - what do I do for valentines day? I keep seeing all these lovely cards and valentines day stuff, and I do want to get him a card, but what about a gift? Is it too soon? We havent been "together" that long, but it just feels as if we have known eachother forever. What do I even write in the card? I can't say I love you at this point in the relationship! What present do I buy for him? I was thinking maybe a nice private dinner somewhere. Do guys even like that? Really like him, and want to do something nice for valentines day but don't want to scare him away. Thoughts?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2008): i just wanted to mention first... i dont think there is anything wrong with the girl planning valentines day...i think anything where the two of you can be alone and just talk to get to know each other better...maybe a night picnic on the beach with lots of blankets where you can star gaze and talk about whatever...i think he will like anything you do...just be creative:)
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (23 January 2008):
 He should be the one who should be doing all the planning for Valentine's day.If he is in to you , he will send you the card and take you out for a romantic dinner or date.
You will know if he is interested in you and not the other way round. If you are doing it , it could be a one way traffic for this relationship.
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