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writes:MY girlfriend and i broke up in november 07, our break up was due to the distance and it was getting a bit difficult.I was still in college and she was starting to work. Our break up was a very calm one, we broke up over the phone. I havent seen her since the break up, but we decided to stay friends. Recently she met someone on a blinde date, and they have known each other for about a week and became official. she is even spending the night. I think they are moving too fast. Anyways the point is, Im increadibly jealous and want her back,I dunno what to do. I still love her. I think i can make it work this time. Should i tell her how i feel, or continue to be "friends" with her. Every time i see her away messages or that she is with her gf i cant take it, i feel horrible and i dont want to mess things up with her and her gf but i really want her back!
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reader, jamey_37  +, writes (27 January 2008):
 ....my opinion.. she's playin hard to get. Been there before.
*She's moving way too fast w/her new partner to make you jealous
*You had a calm break-up.. so she'd be nice to you about her new gf instead of being a jerk and rubbing it in...
*she's only rubbing it in to make you more jealous.
*she sounded shocked because she thought it was working
That's just my opinion. Either she's a jerk and not worth your while, or she's playin some hard to get.
I'm Jamie Williams... And to put it simply... I give advice.
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reader, pillow_pusher +, writes (24 January 2008):
pillow_pusher is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyea, i finnaly told her i cant talk to her for a while. or untill i get over these feelings, she was shocked. but understood that i needed closure and said perhaps in a few months we could be friends again.
im glad i did that. i feel better now...sorta
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (23 January 2008):
 I'm sorry, but it's very clear she doesn't want you back. You should move on.
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reader, pillow_pusher +, writes (23 January 2008):
pillow_pusher is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni finnaly texted her today and she completly rubbed it in that she was with someone... i dont understand why she is being so mean about being in a relationship.. i want to call her but i dunno if i should?
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reader, buddys +, writes (22 January 2008):
 You wanted to break up in the first place right? So ask yourself, is wanting to get back together a result of her being unavailable? That might be the case. People often want what they can't have. Maybe you feel you made a mistake. So get your thoughts organized, and tell her one last time that you still care and want to make it work. She's probably just hurting and using this new relationship to 'rebound' from your relationship. So she might want to get back together. However, she might say no. In which case, you need to move on. You can still be friends in the future, but you need to cut contact with her until you've moved on. Otherwise, you never will. I hope you find the answers.
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