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*oviefan
writes:Ok my friend obsesed over a girl for the last few months and seemed to really like her. Well i went to a party with him and met her. We talked a lot and messed around together and had a lot of fun. Then this entire time my friend kept giving me ugly looks because she would rather do stuff with me. I tried to avoid her a few times and she came looking for me. Which ticked him off more. And near the end i boxed some people with gloves on and everything and got beaten really bad the last time and fealt bad because my head was pounding. Well she teased me at first and then started to comfort me. Which as you may guess didnt go over well with my friend.Well the next day i went to another friends house with the same friend and she was there and was doing the same stuff. She was getting me food when i started to get some and told me to stay sitting down or whatever I was doing. Then we went down a few blocks from my friends house to another party and she came with us but i tried to get a head start to stop her from following me around so my friend would stop threatening me. Well she ran to catch up with me and did the same when we left the party. And once we got back to the house he was trying to impress her by being a d*** to me and it did the opposite it made her upset with him and she gave him the "what a jerk look"Well recently she has been completely avoiding and ignoring my friend and goes out of her way to try to start a conversation when we see each other at school.My friend doesnt realize it but she has been try to give him the hint that she doesnt like him like that. But he doesnt get what she is trying to do. And she always seems pissed at him. He invited her to a party yesterday and she was ready to say no before he even asked and did so. I think he pressured her to go do things with him which may have lead to some of this.Im wondering could it be that the fact that she likes me be stopping her from being nice to my friend. And if so should i tell her its ok if you dont like him but you should tell him and try to get along with him, If you want something to do with me more then friends. I like her but i dont want to loose a friend over a girl. So is it ok for me to date her even tho my friend seems to be done with her but wont stop bringing her up and trying to get her to have something to do with him.I have been out of a 6 month relationship for a several months. And i feel like i may be finally ready to move on maybe. I may still wait a little longer but i dont want to alienate a girl i like by not saying something to her. But i want to make sure its ok to do so before i do it. Thanks
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reader, Moviefan +, writes (22 December 2007):
Moviefan is verified as being by the original poster of the question I like her but its not the same as the last relationship i was in. Before i was dating her i couldnt stop thinkng about her. This girl i do think about her but not that much. Maybe its just im still afraid of being hurt again and i dont want to make myself open to someone so they can hurt me like she did. If anyone else has tips i will keep checking this post the next day or two/
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reader, hello1  +, writes (22 December 2007):
 You're going to have to chose between freindship or a girlfreind, do you really like this girl? you're risking losing your freind trust if you do it but all I can say is, get to know this girl more on a friend level and see if it's worth the risk.
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