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*omethingeasy
writes:Is this girl crazy or what? So I met another girl online, but this one seems to be a little loopy. She doesnt really make sense to me. The first night we talked she was already to come over or the night. I wasnt sure If I really wanted a strange person in my house. So I told her yeah Idont think that is going to happen. Now what makes her crazy is the fact that shes telling me that we should take it slow, (cause thats what I want). But shes under the impression its her idea, when In fact its mine. Now also, about taking it slow, she be texted messaging me all the time talking about hey sexy. And in my head thats not that slow. Now when I ask her a simple question like, ''so what do you do in your spare time?'' She replies with ''Thats confidential'' or doesnt reply at all. Its when I make small normal talk that I get such crazy reactions. We haven't met yet, but we have talked for a whole bunch and Im actually considering meeting up with her at one time or another, but Im really not looking for crazy girl.
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reader, Somethingeasy +, writes (23 December 2007):
Somethingeasy is verified as being by the original poster of the question Yeah well that ended last night, she turned out to be a nut case. I had to block her on all online accounts. Such a shame and I was willing to give her a chance, but I have no room for certified wackos in my life. Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2007): She sounds pretty insane to me. If she can't talk to you about anything other than sex, I think she's not worth your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2007): Yes you should be worried. Smells like manipulation. I say skip this one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2007):
Give her a chance. It sounds as though she is trying to fit in around you, i.e. suggesting taking things slow as her suggestion when you both know this is how you feel. She may simply really like the sound of you.
Try not to over analyse this situation. Meet up with her once and see how you feel from there.
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (23 December 2007):
 I think your gut reaction is right on. I would not meet up with this woman. She is telling you what she thinks you want to hear. The communications you've had are not really her so if you thought you were getting to know her, guess again. As far as "that's confidential" for spare time, sounds like she's trying to manipulate you. For instance I read, golf and cook in my spare time. How hard is it to say that? It doesn't appear as though she has much of a personality. So, look for someone else to invest your time in.
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